Why Do I Feel So Unloved By My Husband?
Andrew Davis
Marriage is intended to be an antidote to loneliness. Nobody expects to feel lonely, unloved, or alienated in their marriage. This is the polar opposite of what we want to happen. What happens, however, if our expectations aren’t met? When we feel emotionally abandoned, what should we do? When we don’t feel loved?
Silky Terrier Dog Breed Playing Aro... Silky Terrier Dog Breed Playing AroundWe aim to explore (and maybe solve) those questions in this series.
Nobody wants to be alone or unloved. We were made to be in community (connection, partnership, and relationship).
It’s natural to yearn for this connection. When it is absent, it is unusual.
As previously mentioned, marriage is intended to be the ultimate life relationship. Regrettably, this is not always the case. Many women (and men) in marriages feel unloved. It hurts when the ‘thing’ that was supposed to make you feel most welcomed and connected doesn’t.
What is the solution? What can we do to fill up the gaps in our relationship? This series aims to assist you in navigating those difficulties and resuming your relationship.
To accomplish so, we’ll have to deal with a few sensitive problems. We aim to provide practical guidance that is grounded on common sense and research. This isn’t always simple.
Separation and divorce have a broad range of public opinion. So, rather than telling you what to do (since each situation is unique), we aim to provide you with the tools you need to work on your relationship.
To do so, we’d want to address some of the most common concerns that couples (mostly women) have regarding their marriage.
About Feeling Unloved in Your Marriage
Here are some of the most commonly asked questions about unloving husbands. We will reply to each of these questions briefly; however, please note that our responses are generic. There are many considerations to be made. Most men’s fundamental reactions are likely to be similar to ours.
Before we get into these crucial issues, have a look at this brief video from The School of Life, in which they discuss why we (as adults) become cold and withdraw from people we care about.