If you have any sense of self-respect, you should terminate your relationship with your partner immediately. You need to reclaim your life and get out of there as soon as possible. I can only imagine the psychological damage he has already done to you; I’m sorry to say it, but I’m betting you have no self-esteem at all, and I’m even betting he has you believing you are incapable of doing any better.

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Why does he continue to live with you if he despises you? Honestly, I wouldn’t be with someone I didn’t like and I wouldn’t be with someone who made me feel the same way he makes you feel if I were in your shoes. I’d never doubt whether or not my compliment despised me in the first place. Silky Terrier Dog Breed Playing Around

Are you scared of leaving him because you fear that he would harm you if you do so? I get a very strange sense from you, and I have a strong suspicion that you are in an abusive relationship; if this is the case, please get professional assistance immediately; disregard anything any of us have to say and go seek help.

I suppose individuals feel free to dump on those who love and care for them because they believe they are secure and that their loved ones would not abandon them. Even those who care about you may get exhausted.

Please refrain from being quite so accommodating, and tell him frankly that you are wary of being his emotional punching bag, and that if he intends to go on, he must take his show on the road.

Unless, of course, If you can’t get him to see that he needs you, loves you, and wants you back in his life, then try giving him a big dose of “this is what it’s like without me” for a week or two and see what happens.

In the event that he is unaware of your absence and does not entreat you to return, it is also acceptable since you have already left and are going on.