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Why Does My Dog Sleep Between My Husband And I?

Writer David Wilson

Here are five potential reasons why your dog sleeps between you and your husband, as well as what factors make each of them more likely to be the primary cause.

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Promoting the desired behavior

Your dog may do it because it’s learned that the action is rewarded. This is more probable if one of you encourages it when it lies between you by giving it more attention, for example. If you do, it’ll probably lie between you more to reap more benefits.

Anxiety over being apart

It may also be that it suffers from separation anxiety, leading it to slumber in the middle of the night so that it is aware of when one of you leaves. This is particularly probable if it exhibits symptoms of anxiety when you are away from it throughout the day, such as pacing or crying.

Nature Dogs were developed to be near people at all times of the day and night. Since a result, it’s natural for your dog to want to be near you both at night and during the day, as it will help it feel more comfortable and like it’s a member of the pack.

Possessiveness

Another possibility is that it is becoming possessive and attempting to defend its position on the bed. If it gets hostile when you attempt to relocate it, this is more probable. In this instance, it would be critical to put a stop to the habit by forcing it to sleep somewhere else at night. More about what to do about it may be found here.

Whereas, if it shows signs of anxiety, such as pacing or crying, it would be more likely that it is doing it due to something causing it to be anxious such as having separation anxiety. This would also be more likely if it becomes very anxious when you get it to sleep somewhere else.

What to do about it

Avoid encouraging it

As mentioned above, it could be the case that the behavior has been encouraged. Instead, it would help to prevent it from going between you both and to reward it when it is not between you both.