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Why Is My Boyfriend Controlling?

Writer Rachel Davis

When you are in a relationship, you make things official with your boyfriend and tell your friends and family members. You spend more time with him than anyone. You want to go outside with him and your boyfriend controls you like he acts like he is possessive. Sometimes it is okay while sometimes it can be awful. Having a controlling boyfriend can actually put you in big trouble because you can’t spend your life with your own mood and thoughts. When you are doing anything you always think about him. This can be a very challenging situation because it can ruin your life and can affect your mental health badly.

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When you are in a relationship with a controlling boyfriend he always questions you. He told you to spend less time with your friends and family. He wants you to isolate yourself from them and only spend time with him. As i said this is very challenging because how can you spend your whole life without friends and family.

In a relationship with a controlling boyfriend, you feel sorry and ashamed for little things. You say sorry a lot to him and apologize to him. He treats you like a child that you can’t understand anything. This thing is good to a specific limit but when it crosses the limit it literally hurts.

A controlling boyfriend thinks that he is always right. When you argue with him he always lets you down and you can’t prove yourself right because if he has a better career as compared to you he always questions your skills and always makes you feel low. 

When you have a controlling boyfriend, you lose your privacy. He always keeps a check on you and wants a report from you. You can’t share anything with your friends or family members. This sucks badly. The best thing to overcome this situation is to leave him and move on into your new life.