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Why is my friend leaving me on seen?

Writer Gabriel Cooper

When you’re in the early phases of connection, nothing compares to the sorrow of a text being “left on read.” It’s non-confrontational and ambiguous, allowing the sender to worry if the receiver is genuinely busy or seeking to evade them. Some people turn off their read receipts because they don’t want to answer straight away this provides them with both the time and space they seek to consider the information and ask when they are ready keeping their receipts off completely removes any pressure that might arise otherwise. Millennials are constantly monitoring messages, Instagram, Twitter, and other social media platforms, so if a friend puts you on read, it usually indicates you’ve been ignored. The person you’re messaging doesn’t care about your message. It tells a lot about their degree of interest in you if they take hours or days to respond.

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REASONS:

For professional reasons, some people are actually very busy and hardly look at their phones during the workday. They may wait until after work to respond, when they will be able to commit more time to chatting with you. Reason number two: They’re simply not interested in responding to you. Do you honestly just look at your phone and think, “oh, I’ll respond to this later” if you truly like someone and they text you? No! When you really like someone, you’re giddy with anticipation and can’t wait to respond. You’re eager to speak with them! So if they don’t respond, it’s safe to assume they’re not interested. Reason number three: They want you to know that they aren’t interested. Finally, leaving a text on read can be interpreted as a passive aggressive kind of rejection. Yes, it’s a little lazy, and it can feel cruel if you’ve already established mutual interest, if not even commitment, but putting a message “on read” is a non-confrontational option. or a way of “giving someone a break.” Unfortunately, not replying is a popular tactic used to convey disinterest.