Feelings aren’t grounded in reality. It is founded on logic. Feelings do not follow rationality. If they were, everyone would experience the same emotions in response to the same inputs. We, on the other hand, do not. The individual you believe is becoming enraged for no apparent cause might be dealing with another issue. They might simply be a person who is enraged. They might simply be a very reactive individual. Most probably there happened an incident by you which had hurt them. Rather than being defensive, strive to be sensitive.

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When they’re upset, ask them to tell you more about their feelings and sympathize. Rather than trying to dismiss their sentiments, see if you can assist them to feel better. This generally diffuses erroneous anger, and if it’s warranted, they should be able to cool down and speak effectively. However, if you’re in an abusive scenario, keep safe and communicate (or don’t talk) until they’re calm again.

When people are unhappy, there is usually a cause for it, even if you don’t realize it right away. Take some time to think about what transpired before dismissing the possibility that you may have enraged your friend. Take a thorough dive into your relationship by writing down everything you said or did immediately before they were upset, reading back over your text messages, and so on.

Even if you didn’t know it at the time, you could realize that you did something inappropriate. Alternatively, you may come to the idea that you couldn’t possibly have done anything to offend them. In either case, it’s worth taking another look at the issue before declaring oneself completely innocent. If you’ve determined that you couldn’t have done anything to upset your buddy, the best thing you can do is give them some space. If they’re enraged for no apparent cause, they’re probably coping with their own problems. Trying to get them to talk about it or to tell you why they’re unhappy would only make things worse.